In the competitive
workplace, employees may feel overworked and have hard difficult times to
balance work and personal life. It is the organization's interest to help
employees' personal problems for improving productivity at work. Supportive
communication allows employees to focus on work related issues and challenges,
which creates a work atmosphere for employee empowerment. However, even with
the best employer’s intentions, the defensive climate might be created during
the process of communication, which has a negative effect on the workers. To have
supportive communication, managers need
skills of active listening and with giving feedback. Without those skills
managers may get confused with personal issues at work and Motor Parts
Corporation case is such an example. Supportive
communication in an organization is astronomical to organizational
effectiveness, reflecting how businesses manage opposition, preventing
dysfunctional tendencies. Active listening and effective feedback are
organizational attributes that replicates effective leadership abilities to
value employees, and implement efficient communication. Organizations must
address employees’ personal problems that affect job performance, keeping the
business role in proper perspective, maintaining strict limitations that are
concise, and unambiguous. For example, Doc Fan, the military is an organization
that effectively implements entities assisting soldiers with personal problems.
Challenges
of supportive communication
Defensive
communication may occur during communication if people feel threatened. Gibb's categories indicated several factors
that can produce defensive communication and they include evaluation, control,
strategy, neutrality, superiority, and certainty. The limitation of knowledge and lack of
experience of the communicator, and the relationship between the two
communicating parties could affect the outcome of the communication. An effective communication needs to provide necessary support, the
support must be relevant and accurate, which requires that the communicator
holds enough information about employees’ needs but that is not always easy. The expression during
communication must be sincere otherwise the situation will be worse than not
expressing concern at all, which is not easy task for managers either? neither.
So to properly handle personal issues at work is a challenge for any
organization. There are numerous challenges creating effective organizational
supportive communication. Maintaining an atmosphere that prevents dysfunctional
communication is a monumental challenge
for organization maintaining operative communication. Several dysfunctional
organizational communications are selective perceptions, semantic problems, and
information overload (Champoux, 2006).
The
skills of active listening and giving feedback
“Supportive
communication will be positively related to job satisfaction” (Nobile, 2008). So managers should
develop such skills to effectively manage employees. The
skills of active listening and giving feedback are important skills used in
supportive communication. “Numerous
factors affect the outcomes of supportive interactions, including
aspects of the supportive message, the helper, the interaction
context, and the recipient” (Burleson, 2009). Active listening
is a way of responding to the speaker, which encourages communication. An
effective active listening skill may include three parts: preparation, actively
listening, and follow up. For preparation, listeners should know how to focus
on the subjects, to stop non-relevant activities before the communication
starts, to organize relevant information in advance, to set aside personal
prejudices and opinions. The skills of active listening
should include attending skills such as verbal or non-verbal acknowledging with eye
contact or other body language, and asking, reflecting, reinforcing
and supporting, and points summarizing. The follow up are the skills of giving
the speaker time and space, repressing appreciation for sharing, and applying
what needs to be done for the situation. At the end of a supportive
communication, a skilled listener should receive the following
information: the facts, needs, wants, feelings and emotions, thoughts
and beliefs, hopes, and expectations.
Active listening skills improve individual’s aptitude for conversation,
which is extremely important in any organizational setting. Several attributes
effectively enhance active listening skills are responding appropriately,
focusing solely on the speaker’s intent, maintaining receptiveness, and
allowing the speaker to complete their statements. Active listening provides
the ability to understand the speaker’s message and intent, preventing
misinterpretation: hearing the messenger’s facts, understanding the individuals
feeling about the message is critical
Feedback
could be powerful and important means of communication, which can be positive
or negative. A positive feedback enhances supportive communication. The skill
for giving positive feedback comprises the technique to deliver information in
non-threatening and encouraging manner, focus on defined issues, deliver the needs
accurately, avoid insult or demean, focus on behavior and specific events
instead of personality, give information on the right time, deliver the
information in a thoughtful and helpful way. Feedback is a
sub-component of communication, requiring all entities of an organization
grasping a clear understanding about the priorities and results of tasks (Champoux,
2006). Feedback is a performance necessity, an established method necessary for
organizational members receiving honest performance assessments
Organization’s
role in helping employees’ personal problems
When
employees are assisted with their personal problems, the employees' personal
problems are less likely to have negative impact on their work performance.
Actually, employees who feel that their personal and family priorities are
accepted and acknowledged by their managers and their organizations are more
engaged and more productive at work. In the competitive workplace, employees
may feel overworked and may have hard time to balance work and personal life.
So,
organization can play important role in helping employees address personal
problems that may interfere with their work performance, aligning business needs
and employees' individual needs, creating a workplace that recognizes and
supports employees' needs. Employee assistance programs are some of the ways to
handle employees' personal problems.
Organization's
Employee Assistance Programs
(EPAs) are intended to help employees to deal with personal problems that might
adversely impact their work performance, health, and well-being. EAPs generally
include assessment,
short-term counseling and referral services for employees and their household
members. On the other hand, work-schedule
flexibility has become a critical issue for employees. To help employees
effectively navigate work-life priorities and stay productive, employers can
also provided flexible
work-schedule. Sub-standard work performance theoretically is
unacceptable, regardless of the circumstances surrounding this deficiency. An
organization’s role addressing employees’ personal problems interfering with work
performance is finite, but necessary fundamentally. Providing feedback and
active listening are important in identifying and accessing potential problem
and work distracters. The ideology of organizational communication supports
sharing information, providing performance feedback, and expressing emotion:
innovating the human side of an organization
Discussion of Bob's communication problems
Bob was hesitant to become too
involved in Al's personal issues for many reasons for example: Bob may not want
to overstep professional boundaries, may
afraid that superiority communication will meet defensive response, and may not have such experience and did not
know how to conduct a supportive communication with Al.
To ask Mike to talk
with Al, Bob may avoid personal confrontation, bad feeling, and negative impact
of relationship. But Mike may not be able to convey the message to both Bob and
Al accurately. Al may perceive that Bob was not sincere, did not trust him, and
would not corporate with him for his personal issues. This distrust may
distract Al from concentrating in real issues of both work and family.
Consequently, a defensive situation could be created, and the situation may get
worse.
The actions Bob should
take
“Open communication has long been identified as a
feature of effective, successful. It relates to honesty of interactions and high
levels of trust” (Nobile, 2009). In order to open up a more meaningful
conversation with Al, Bob can ask questions in a good way to gain necessary
information, but it is important to ask non-aggressive questions. Bob should
make Al feel those questions are to genuinely seeking information or an
opinion. Instead of asking, "Why
did you” types of questions. Instead, Bob should ask "Can you tell me what
difficulties you have and is there anything I
can do to help you?" Bob should create a climate in which the
communication is taking place with Al to share mutual respect and trust. Because
”The supportive function serves the emotional, interpersonal and morale needs
of individuals” (Nobile, 2008).
Communication is not just saying words; it is creating true
understanding (Frey, 1998). Active
listening is an important skill in communication. When listening to Al talking,
Bob should look at Al's eyes, properly use body language and silence, restate
and paraphrase what Al said, reflect feelings and experiences, reinforce and
support, offer tentative interpretation, summarize what Al said, and ask
additional questions in a supportive way to clear up confusions.
After a day or so, Bob can give
feedback in an encourage manner, focus on solutions on personal issues and work
efficiency, deliver the feedback with sensitivity to the Al's needs such as arrange flexible hours, give helpful suggestions, and
follow up to provide further support if it is necessary. Yes, Doc Fan. Bob’s ability to provide
effective feedback is unequivocally important as his acute listening skills,
informing Al about quality job performance. Bob effective feedback reduces
uncertainties, eliminating false perception concerning the vice president. Effective
feedback confirms Bob’s perceptions of Al’s behavior, performance objectives,
and most importantly informing Al of the organization’s concern for his family
welfare. Bob’s actions may solidify Al’s organizational commitment, clarify any
ill-feelings, and boost productivity, ensuring Al that MPC considers his
personal matter as a top priority.
Motor Parts Corporation and personal issues
MPC does not have the obligation to assist its employees with
personal and family problems. However, employees have the needs and
priorities outside of work that affect their work and productivity; therefore,
MPC may have interest in assisting Al. That interest might lead MPC to work
with Al to design a work schedule that allows him to get his work done and take
care of family problems at the same time. MPC can also refer Al to employee
assistance program (EAP) for help to discuss issues such as emotional distress, major
life events, health care
concerns, family issues, and work relationship issues.
Conclusion
MPC does not have the obligation
to assist its employees with personal and family problems but personal
problems are less likely to have negative impact on employees’ work
if they are supported by the organization so it is MPC’s interest to assist Al. The supportive communication is probably one of the most
helpful means to assist Al in this situation. But delivering supportive
communication is not an easy task. Experience and skills of active listening
and giving feedback are required to handle this situation.
“Open
communication has long been identified as a feature of effective, successful.
It relates to honesty of interactions and high levels of trust” (Nobile, 2009). Bob should consult Mike to learn
how to perform a supportive communication with Al in a way to constructively
resolve those
problems. Then
Bob can invite Al to his office to have an open and honest conversation. When
listening to Al talking, Bob should look at Al, properly use body language and
silence, restate and paraphrase what Al said, reflect feelings and experiences,
reinforce and support, offer tentative interpretation, summarize what Al said, ask
additional questions in a supportive way to clear up confusions. Bob can give
feedback in an encourage manner, focus on solutions on personal issues and work
efficiency, deliver the feedback with sensitivity to the Al's needs, arrange flexible work hour, give
helpful suggestions , and follow up to provide further support if it is necessary.